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  • Little L
    This is a challenging topic and an ongoing issue. How do we deal with those people who don’t respect our boundaries knowingly or unknowingly. You know them……boundary wall pushers. You make a decision to change your reaction to them to keep you from getting annoyed, but as soon as they come around you they just rub you up the wrong way. In your head you’re like seriously, did they just say that?. Or did they just really do that?…… Just like Jamiroquai spoke about a partners behaviour making him love them with a ‘Little L’. Because when the boundary wall…More
  • Top Gear Magazines
    Are there any activities or hobbies you’ve outgrown or lost interest in over time? During my teens I loved Top Gear magazines. Especially reading the specifications of the cars. I never spoke to any of my friends about it. They were more into girly stuff (as it was called at the time). I felt too ashamed to speak to the boys. I use to get excited each time a new magazine came out. Honestly I can’t pinpoint exactly what the reason for the interest but I know I loved it. As I got older I lost interest. My eldest son…More
  • Bitter Sweet Symphony
    Our comfort can feel good, but not every thing that feels good is good for us right? Those bitter sweet moments, where our comfort creates some kind of safety but it actually stops you from growing . People who succeed in life or introduced change into their life always have stepped outside of their comfort zone. There’s an element of risk to everything kids, marriage, new career, starting a business, moving home, moving to a different country, going travelling and more….. With the presence of risk there is also the other side and this is why we as humans tend…More
  • Shape Of You
    Do you ever wonder who are you really?. The real you without all the online influences, social media, and podcast information? Are you starting to sound like a mixture of your favourite podcasts hosts?. Maybe it’s got to the point, where you have forgotten where you got that great bit of advice from. Because you follow so much people on YouTube or Instagram. Are you using dating advice from YouTube?. Whilst not bad especially if you have had trouble in that particular area, but what happens when you get past the dating stage and the real you come out. Then…More
  • Just A Little Bit More
    Ever wonder why some people seem to have the knack at making things work and well…..why others it doesn’t seem to work out as hoped. Well maybe your thinking there must be something special about them, some magic formula, they must already have the funds, they must have a high IQ?. It’s hardly those things or many other thing we could conjure up in our heads. I talking about the people who are innovative, make radical positive changes in their personal life, lasting growth, give up a habit, grow a company, growth on social media and more. It’s usually takes…More
  • Just the way you are 🫆
    I’m guessing anyone reading this would have possibly occupied their earthy body for least a couple of decades now. Possibly tried to move out of our earthly bodies a few times. Maybe even invited in a couple of swatters and rude guests, that’s another story. But here’s the thing like a house made of brick and motar or grand design type house if you’re really posh. A house can be gutted, fixed up both internally and externally. Some parts can be reused and enhanced. We can improve ourself, please note we’re not too far gone. Saying it’s just the way I…More
  • Born To Be Wild
    We often hear the word normal but what is normal?. Why do we presume some people’s behaviours are normal and condemn people who act out of side of these characteristics (that’s not considered the norm). I am for one, not normal and nor do I wish to be. What equates to normal?, does anyone really know?. Because from what I’ve witnessed and maybe you too, people who lived a life well (happy or successful in various areas) have very unique characteristic and against what seems normal. In fact they can be pretty wild in their thinking. Innovators are certainly wild,…More
  • Picking Up The Pieces
    So friends were at the beginning of a New Year. Last year it felt like some of us have walked through the fire, some may have came out pretty unscathed and rest bit battered bruised. I don’t know personally what you have dealt with but the fact is your reading this so your Alive and your here. Where there’s life there’s hope, you made it even if your feelings differ. I like to think of all our issues as pieces of a puzzle and as we go into a new year we need to pick up those pieces and put…More
  • Get Lucky
    Now, I no longer believe in luck. In fact, for a long time now. It can lead people into a false sense that things fall into their lap by chance, and if it doesn’t, then you certainty have something wrong with you accord to the world standards. There was no contract signed as we entered this world, promising us a good or challenging life. Not even a mediocre or rich life. So where did the idea of luck come from some superstious person probably I feel like banging my head against a wall every time a certain family member says,…More
  • All I Want For Christmas 🎄
    So this time of year we speed up and then slow down or get smacked down with a winter bug. This happened to me and my family just after Christmas last year when someone gave us a gift in the form of an intense horrible cold. Christmas is a time of nostalgia with the festivities , then a couple of days later we jump straight into how can I improve myself and purpose next year. Whilst our brain is still in festive fussy mode. Let’s unpack this friends, starting with Christmas day it self, first off not everyone enjoys it…More
  • Overload
    Fast approaching is Christmas with a big drizzle of increased consumerism. It feels alittle uneasy especially as we find it hard to focus, with all stuff we have already and our short attention spans,  followed by all the excess dopamine hits (instant gratifaction). More stuff, more overwhelm and a feeling of being overloaded. If you’re a freelancer like me you’re maybe thinking when’s the best time to stop and then begin working again, during and after the holiday’s. Whatever your circumstance don’t let the presents and food during christmas overwhelm you. I decided I would focus on the true meaning…More
  • This little brain 🧠  of mine, I need to let it shine
    *Little Brain – how I describe our overwhelmed brain certainly not a scientific terminology. In a time where our brains are possibly less cooperative due to lack of nutrients in food, needing constant stimulation, digital devices, social media, trauma from the distressing things we see or hear daily. Could we be suffering from little brain where it takes a lot more effort to conjure up creativity and ideas. Even choosing what to watch on Netflix is quite a task only to finally find something and fall asleep. Scrolling feels like the straw that breaks the camel back. The majority of…More

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