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  • When did we stop cheering people on?
    I donā€™t know about you but Iā€™ve seen some pretty life giving and life changing content on various platforms and even in person events or just a good word from friends. But what Iā€™m seeing in response is different from many years ago. I see people saying they really enjoy the talk, food, atmosphere in the room, encouragement, the support but they didnā€™t let the main person (who did something helpful or gave a encouraging word) or the staff know how it impacted or added to their day or life in a positive way big or small. That, video on…More
  • Trials and Tribulations
    Which aspects do you think makes a person unique? We are led to think, that the wider world looks at appearances, successā€™s , personality as what makes someone unique. Yes these things do come into play but actually what has been seen more recently with the increase in social media is people connect more with someone who has gone through trials and tribulations that they have openly shared and overcoming these difficulties. These things create a personal and uniqueness towards the person going through or have been through trials. Thereā€™s a saying that people love a sob story, but I…More
  • Content
    Whilst weā€™re working towards a goal being content in the present moment is equally important. We shouldnā€™t be living to far (in our heads) into to the future neither the past. Being content is different from comfortable. In fact people are often uncomfortable with the idea of being content. It makes them feel like maybe itā€™s some kind of defeat in accepting their current situation. Honestly itā€™s not that, being content allows you to rest in the place youā€™re currently at and appreciate the things you currently have before your current goal is reached. Learning to be content with a…More
  • The Counterfeit Distraction
    How often do you say ā€œnoā€ to things that would interfere with your goals? Coming from a place of a previous ā€˜yes personā€™. I have now learnt the art of saying no. So with that in mind I am a big advocate for saying no to things that interfere with goals. Do you ever notice when youā€™re working towards goal, a counterfeit distraction will come along to distract and detach you from youā€™re path? Itā€™s a real thing and real struggle right there. The counterfeit distraction always seems easier, fun and it may even have more benefits on the surface…More
  • Courageous
    What happens to us from birth until now that rocks confidence. My dad left the family home when I was around 6 years old. From there things went left for various reasons. The relationship I thought I had with a dad I adored was no longer there. It was up and down for years after that. Fast forward and I have come to realise losing our confidence makes us lose courage. The mistake I made was putting my confidence in a person, yes it was my parent but never the less making them responsible for my future happiness is dangerous.…More
  • Best Unintentional Compliment I received
    What was the best compliment you’ve received? Youā€™re not putting up with rubbish anymore are you? Some may not call it a compliment but I certainly do. You see many times I was a yes person and allowed people to take the reigns. My voice drowned out and almost on mute. I believed the lie that my opinions donā€™t matter and who would want to hear what I have to say. Those people made me awful. Another element added to the mix, was being a child raised in the 90s. Parents spoke for you, a lot and to be honest…More
  • How Committed Are You?
    Success is twenty percent skill and eighty percent consistency. Consistency is the foundation for being committed. When we commit to something we make a decision to see it out, until the desired result is reached. But to get the desired result we need to be consistent in the things we do everyday towards it. Consistency comes in many forms but one thing is key, repeating the same tasks towards your end goal over and over again. It requires focus and sacrifice. Sometime itā€™s doing things you could do without that seems tedious or boring. Actually itā€™s very necessary to the…More
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    Write a letter to your 100-year-old self. Dear Warrior, Didnā€™t you go through some serious things but guess what?, a live well lived is not the absence of problems. You made it even when you wanted to quit at times. The scars you wear is a symbol of strength and resilience. The day you made a choice to not compare against anyone but only be better than you were yesterday, was when life truly began to bring peace even in the chaos. At times you risked it and it paid off by success or by being a life lesson to…More
  • Charity and Compassion
    How do you view your work and personal life, do you show compassion and charitable behaviours towards those who are already, or come into your life even when theyā€™re good or challenging? In the UK (where I live), I am noticing a lack of charity and compassion towards others both personally and outwardly. Now this can be for a variety of reasons for instance, in the workplace someone dislikes their job, the customers are known to be demanding, itā€™s a fast paced environment leaving little time for customer interaction. Whatever it is compassion is being lost in some facilities between…More
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    What are three objects you couldn’t live without? Like most objects, the truth is I can live without them if I had too but I find these object helpful to live with. These add to my life:- Books- are like mentors if you find the right one. And also if itā€™s a good novelā€¦. well it transports me to places I may never visits in real life because some are impossible like faraway made up places. Craft material- whilst I am at a place where I donā€™t buy much anymore. I still have a lovely choice of craft stuff from…More
  • Little L
    This is a challenging topic and an ongoing issue. How do we deal with those people who donā€™t respect our boundaries knowingly or unknowingly. You know themā€¦ā€¦boundary wall pushers. You make a decision to change your reaction to them to keep you from getting annoyed, but as soon as they come around you they just rub you up the wrong way. In your head youā€™re like seriously, did they just say that?. Or did they just really do that?ā€¦ā€¦ Just like Jamiroquai spoke about a partners behaviour making him love them with a ā€˜Little Lā€™. Because when the boundary wall…More
  • Top Gear Magazines
    Are there any activities or hobbies you’ve outgrown or lost interest in over time? During my teens I loved Top Gear magazines. Especially reading the specifications of the cars. I never spoke to any of my friends about it. They were more into girly stuff (as it was called at the time). I felt too ashamed to speak to the boys. I use to get excited each time a new magazine came out. Honestly I canā€™t pinpoint exactly what the reason for the interest but I know I loved it. As I got older I lost interest. My eldest son…More
  • Bitter Sweet Symphony
    Our comfort can feel good, but not every thing that feels good is good for us right? Those bitter sweet moments, where our comfort creates some kind of safety but it actually stops you from growing . People who succeed in life or introduced change into their life always have stepped outside of their comfort zone. Thereā€™s an element of risk to everything kids, marriage, new career, starting a business, moving home, moving to a different country, going travelling and moreā€¦.. With the presence of risk there is also the other side and this is why we as humans tend…More
  • Shape Of You
    Do you ever wonder who are you really?. The real you without all the online influences, social media, and podcast information? Are you starting to sound like a mixture of your favourite podcasts hosts?. Maybe it’s got to the point, where you have forgotten where you got that great bit of advice from. Because you follow so much people on YouTube or Instagram. Are you using dating advice from YouTube?. Whilst not bad especially if you have had trouble in that particular area, but what happens when you get past the dating stage and the real you come out. Then…More
  • Just A Little Bit More
    Ever wonder why some people seem to have the knack at making things work and wellā€¦..why others it doesnā€™t seem to work out as hoped. Well maybe your thinking there must be something special about them, some magic formula, they must already have the funds, they must have a high IQ?. Itā€™s hardly those things or many other thing we could conjure up in our heads. I talking about the people who are innovative, make radical positive changes in their personal life, lasting growth, give up a habit, grow a company, growth on social media and more. Itā€™s usually takes…More
  • Just the way you are šŸ«†
    I’m guessing anyone reading this would have possibly occupied their earthy body for least a couple of decades now. Possibly tried to move out of our earthly bodies a few times. Maybe even invited in a couple of swatters and rude guests, that’s another story. But here’s the thing like a house made of brick and motar or grand design type house if you’re really posh. A house can be gutted, fixed up both internally and externally. Some parts can be reused and enhanced. We can improve ourself, please note weā€™re not too far gone. Saying it’s just the way I…More
  • Born To Be Wild
    We often hear the word normal but what is normal?. Why do we presume some people’s behaviours are normal and condemn people who act out of side of these characteristics (thatā€™s not considered the norm). I am for one, not normal and nor do I wish to be. What equates to normal?, does anyone really know?. Because from what I’ve witnessed and maybe you too, people who lived a life well (happy or successful in various areas) have very unique characteristic and against what seems normal. In fact they can be pretty wild in their thinking. Innovators are certainly wild,…More
  • Picking Up The Pieces
    So friends were at the beginning of a New Year. Last year it felt like some of us have walked through the fire, some may have came out pretty unscathed and rest bit battered bruised. I don’t know personally what you have dealt with but the fact is your reading this so your Alive and your here. Where there’s life there’s hope, you made it even if your feelings differ. I like to think of all our issues as pieces of a puzzle and as we go into a new year we need to pick up those pieces and put…More
  • Get Lucky
    Now, I no longer believe in luck. In fact, for a long time now. It can lead people into a false sense that things fall into their lap by chance, and if it doesn’t, then you certainty have something wrong with you accord to the world standards. There was no contract signed as we entered this world, promising us a good or challenging life. Not even a mediocre or rich life. So where did the idea of luck come from some superstious person probably I feel like banging my head against a wall every time a certain family member says,…More
  • All I Want For Christmas šŸŽ„
    So this time of year we speed up and then slow down or get smacked down with a winter bug. This happened to me and my family just after Christmas last year when someone gave us a gift in the form of an intense horrible cold. Christmas is a time of nostalgia with the festivities , then a couple of days later we jump straight into how can I improve myself and purpose next year. Whilst our brain is still in festive fussy mode. Letā€™s unpack this friends, starting with Christmas day it self, first off not everyone enjoys it…More
  • Overload
    Fast approaching is Christmas with a big drizzle of increased consumerism. It feels alittle uneasy especially as we find it hard to focus, with all stuff we have already and our short attention spans,  followed by all the excess dopamine hits (instant gratifaction). More stuff, more overwhelm and a feeling of being overloaded. If you’re a freelancer like me you’re maybe thinking when’s the best time to stop and then begin working again, during and after the holiday’s. Whatever your circumstance don’t let the presents and food during christmas overwhelm you. I decided I would focus on the true meaning…More
  • This little brain šŸ§ Ā  of mine, I need to let it shine
    *Little Brain – how I describe our overwhelmed brain certainly not a scientific terminology. In a time where our brains are possibly less cooperative due to lack of nutrients in food, needing constant stimulation, digital devices, social media, trauma from the distressing things we see or hear daily. Could we be suffering from little brain where it takes a lot more effort to conjure up creativity and ideas. Even choosing what to watch on Netflix is quite a task only to finally find something and fall asleep. Scrolling feels like the straw that breaks the camel back. The majority of…More

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