Just the way you are 🫆

I’m guessing anyone reading this would have possibly occupied their earthy body for least a couple of decades now. Possibly tried to move out of our earthly bodies a few times. Maybe even invited in a couple of swatters and rude guests, that’s another story.

But here’s the thing like a house made of brick and motar or grand design type house if you’re really posh. A house can be gutted, fixed up both internally and externally. Some parts can be reused and enhanced.

We can improve ourself, please note we’re not too far gone. Saying it’s just the way I am is not a final decision or destination.

In fact, it almost causes us to disassociate from our habits and behaviours that affect ourselves and others. This was and is still a famous line my boomer parents use ‘it’s just the way I am, and if people don’t like it well….’ .

Well, you can change and evolve, but probably not as fast as Apples updates or ChatGPT. But neither the less don’t put yourself in a box excepting your limiting beliefs are just who you are and there is no plan B. That’s a false narrative.

It’s a choice and starts with one decision, to change today, not just in January. Don’t wait until a new year starts ,today is the day. The perfect timing doesn’t exist. Do you know how I came to this revelation? Well, I tried it many times on numerous occasions. Please note, indecision is also a decision.

So when the words ‘just the way you are’ is uttered, let it be the version of you that’s refined and renewed. Who you truly want to be not who you accept or settle for being.

You’re trusted and constantly growing friend,

Chanel