Trials and Tribulations

Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

We are led to think, that the wider world looks at appearances, success’s , personality as what makes someone unique.

Yes these things do come into play but actually what has been seen more recently with the increase in social media is people connect more with someone who has gone through trials and tribulations that they have openly shared and overcoming these difficulties.

These things create a personal and uniqueness towards the person going through or have been through trials.

There’s a saying that people love a sob story, but I personally think this term diminishes the severity of what the person has been through.

I believe it’s more that we feel connected and invested in others lives and at times see ourselves, our situations in that person. We are usually in the thick of it, and see in them the light at the end of a dark tunnel.

It gives us hope that we too will overcome what challenges we are facing.

Our uniqueness that separates us, is the things we have overcome despite the struggles and trials place before us. This can lead others to see strength, maturity, different kind of success, respect, hard work and more.

How we approach the difficult things changes us whether good or bad. It moulds and shapes us. It can completely change our character and this has a impact on how others see us and how we see the world around us.

I would even go as far as to say how we view and see the world creates how unique we are. When we follow others views solely without looking at seeking understanding for ourselves, forming an opinion based on a more rounded view, we risk being unique and end up being merged into a majority.

We’re call to be unique. as no one person has the same finger prints even identical twins. We are different and if there is one take away today it’s…..

Be uniquely you because you have different finger prints from every person that lives or has ever lived.

Your not called to be like anyone else, you’re trials and tribulations are all part of you as a whole package. But don’t let it hold you back. Your story could help someone else feel seen and give them hope.

Chanel x